Showing posts with label Sri Bhagvad Gita. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sri Bhagvad Gita. Show all posts

Friday, 20 November 2015

What is Illusion?

दैवी ह्येषा गुणमयी मम माया दुरत्यया |
मामेव ये प्रपद्यन्ते मायामेतां तरन्ति ते
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daivī hyehā gua-mayī mama māyā duratyayā
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ām eva ye prapadyante māyām etāṁ taranti te
~Bhagavad Gita, Chapter 7, verse 14

My divine energy Maya, consisting of the three modes of nature, is very difficult to overcome. But those who surrender unto me cross over it easily.

Shree Krishna says that Maya is very difficult to overcome because it is his energy. If anyone conquers Maya, it means that person has conquered God himself. Since no one can defeat God, no one can defeat Maya either. And because the mind is made from Maya, no yogi, jnani, ascetic, or karmi can successfully control the mind merely by self-effort.

Here’s a short story to illustrate this shloka.

Sage Narada once asked Krishna the meaning of Maya.

Krishna said, ‘It is better experienced than understood. Come let’s ride into the forest in my chariot.’

After riding deep into the forest, Krishna said, ‘I am thirsty. You look thirsty too. I can hear a river flowing beyond the trees. But I am too tired to walk there. You go to the river, quench your thirst and get some water back for me. But before you drink the water make sure you bathe.’

Narada walked to the river. It was farther than he had assumed it was. By the time he reached the waters he was so thirsty that he drank the water forgetting to first take a bath as instructed by Krishna. As a result he turned into a woman, a beautiful woman.

A man saw Narada, the woman, and fell in love with her and begged her to marry him. Narada was so enchanted by the flattery that he agreed. The two lived a happy married life and had sixty children. But then there was an epidemic that claimed the lives of her husband and her children. Narada was miserable. She felt she should kill herself. But then suddenly sorrow was replaced by ravenous hunger.

She smelt the sweet smell of a mango from the tree near her house. She stretched out her hand to fetch it but it was out of reach. So she dragged the corpses of her husband and children, climbed on them, plucked the fruit and was about to eat it when a priest appeared and told her to at least take a bath before eating the fruit as she had been contaminated by touching dead bodies.

So Narada entered the river to take a bath, keeping the hand holding the mango above the water, for she feared the force of the water would wash the mango away. When she emerged, she was a man once again but the hand holding the mango still had the bangles she wore as a woman.
Suddenly he remembered all that had happened. The priest who had asked her to take a bath was Krishna himself, ‘See how you forgot all about me and my thirst and my instructions to take a bath before drinking the water. See how once you became a woman you enjoyed the attention of a man and then the attention of your children. And when they died, you forgot about them to satisfy your desire for the mango fruit. This is Maya, delusion produced by desire that makes you forget everything except the pursuit of self-gratification.’

Having learned his lesson, Narada dipped the female hand with the mango in the water and it came up as a male hand; the mango turned into his lute.
                
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P.S. (This story features in Devdutt Pattnaik's "Shikhandi". While he has used the story in context of Narada turning into a woman, here the same story illustrates the concept of Maya or illusion.) 

Thursday, 6 August 2015

How to remain Non- Attached?


Attachment often carries the burden of expectations. Expectations when fulfilled, form a positive association in the mind and lead to further expectations. Expectations when not fulfilled, causes grief. The grief can later take on a negative or positive connotation depending on the circumstances.

To give an example, you get attached to your partner. You begin expecting that he or she will act in a manner pleasing to you. If he/she does act in a favourable manner, you begin expecting a similar behaviour each time, adding more and more things to that list of expectations. It also makes you act in a similar manner towards your partner, so that the exchange of pleasant behaviour is continued. There could be a time when these expectations are not met. And then your mind begins to think of reasons why there has been a change, it also experiences grief, self-pity, and anger, and in some extreme cases could also lead to destructive tendencies.

So does that mean you should not get attached even to the ones you love?

The answer is NO.

But isn’t this easier said than done! How can one not get attached to the one we love? Getting attached is a natural tendency!

There is a famous quote of the Buddha which says,

“Non-attachment does not mean that you should not possess something, rather it means that nothing should possess you!”

Non attachment does not imply that you should be cold as a stone and devoid of all emotions. It does not mean that you should not love a person. It does not mean that you should be indifferent.

Non attachment means that you love somebody because you want to and not because you expect to be loved back. It means having emotions for a person, but not letting your emotions fuel negative and positive thoughts about that person. It means not allowing people and circumstances to have a control on how you feel. It means letting the person free and not interfering in the working of his/her mind. And more than that, it means, not letting the working of his/ her mind have an impact on you.

Attachment is a deterrent in helping you let go. It holds you back from forgiving, from letting the other person free, and in having a better control of your feelings and emotions. It makes you expect more from a person. It takes away the joy of the present.

Non attachment on the other hand, means not wanting to have control over everything, not having expectations and having the ability to enjoy your present.

When this form of non-attachment happens, you become free, because, your mind is no more attached to the outcome. You are in charge of your mind and emotions and they no longer control you, rather it is the other way round.






Monday, 27 July 2015

Non Attachment

कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन 
मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भूर्मा ते सङ्गोऽस्त्वकर्मणि-४७

                               Karmanya Vadhi-karasthe Ma Phaleshu Kada-chana,
            Ma Karma- phala hetur- bhurma Te Sangh-ostv- akarmani

This verse from The Bhagvad Gita, Chapter 2, Verse 47, means-

You have the right to work, but you do not have right to its fruits,
Let the expectations of fruits not be the motive of your action, nor let your     attachment be to inaction.

 Such a beautiful Shloka! This verse brings out the philosophy of non-attachment. It urges us to do our work but not get attached to the results of our work. In a way, it calls upon us to be selfless and detached. On the other hand, it also cautions us not to work with the result in mind. And if the result is not expected to be fruitful, it urges us to still put in our best effort and not refrain from working hard. 

This seems like such a simple philosophy but yet it is the most difficult to follow. How can one be not attached to the results of their hard work?  Will you be motivated to work hard if you knew it was for nothing? You put in years of hard work, lose sleep over it, do your best to nurture it, and in the end you gain nothing out it. Perhaps you might get the “joy” of having worked so hard, but nothing more.

Surely a human being cannot be so detached, we may be compelled to say. But when we look closer, we have a role model right inside our homes. Yes, our Mother!

The efforts she puts in to give birth, and nurture her child is unparalleled, and yet all she gets out of it is a sense of happiness. The mother indeed is an ideal example of non-attachment.  

She does not tend to her child expecting him to repay her. Neither does she stop tending to him if she thinks it is an exercise in futility.  She knows that after years of hard work, she still will never have the rights to its fruits.  Irrespective of whether her child might look after her when she is old, or kick her out of the house, she will still do her best for him. She will leave no stone unturned to see that he gets the best education, the most nutritious food, and good health. Even when he shows signs of hostility, she will continue to do the best for him.